People Will Have Personal Agendas Against You, And It’s Not Your Problem
You’re going to want to control the narrative but it will be irrelevant
If others believe that false narrative and can’t see where there’s truth vs. somebody having a personal agenda against you,
They don’t have the current capability to see through it,
and that’s not your problem
The ones who are smart enough will come to see and recognize
And even if everyone has a false narrative of you,
From somebody else
It will be irrelevant to your goals
and trust me I’m the emotional type
I want everyone to know my side of the story
And a lot of times that won’t happen.
You need to separate
what is factual
and
what is personal
What is a personal attack vs a factual criticism,
most of the time when it’s factual it can be spoken and worked out
You can spot personal when they won’t bring it up to you
And a personal problem to them, is terribly more harmful to themselves than it could ever be to you